HOW TO GET A GIRL TO LIKE YOU.
If you thought that approaching a girl in public seemed difficult—maybe you thought that she was out of your league, although that never really makes much sense if you think about it— Pause…
Sorry about that. I tend to go off topic.
Say you met at girl at the mall, or at the bar, or wherever, and you managed to get her number.
Pat on the back. 🙂
So, what are you going to text her? 🙂
Here’s the great part. I’ve managed to fuck up many conversations via texting or whatever, and I was thinking the SAME thing that you’re thinking right now:
“What the hell did I say wrong?!”
Who knows? Who cares?
I’m about to share with you a few things that you need to know in order to maintain communication with a girl and to get her to like you after that first text.
GETTING A GIRL’S NUMBER SHOWS THAT SHE MAY BE INTERESTED IN YOU.
So don’t fuck that up, alright?!
TEXT HER PRETTY QUICKLY AFTER GETTING HER NUMBER: WAIT NO MORE THAN 2 DAYS.
You want to keep the momentum going. She probably won’t even remember your name the day after you’ve met her.
This brings me to my next point.
LEAVE YOUR NAME, BECAUSE SHE MAY NOT REMEMBER YOU.
Like…. leave your name at the end of the text message.
CALL BACK TO SOMETHING THAT YOU TALKED ABOUT TOGETHER.
This comes in handy when you can’t think of anything to say, and you’re on the verge of sabotaging yourself. It’s also a good way to get her to respond, because she’ll probably recall what you’re talking about.
SEND HER A LIGHT, FUNNY TEXT.
Elicit her emotions. We’re emotional creatures, so it makes sense to get her to laugh to show interest in you.
Saying things like, “Hey, how are you?” the day after you met her sounds awkward.
TEXT ENOUGH TO KEEP HER INTERESTED.
You may be thinking, “Well, how much is enough?”
How should I know?
What do you think I am, a fucking know-it-all?!
Here’s some insight.
ASSUME SHE LIKES YOU, EVEN IF SHE DOESN’T.
Even if you think she doesn’t like you, act like she does. If you do this, then you’ll be more likely to send a text that she likes, as opposed to a text that comes off as needy.
If it turns out that she doesn’t like you, then tell her to fuck off.
Wait, don’t say that. Let her be the one to say that.
What I mean by this is: don’t be like all the other guys who suck up to her. It shows that you put her on a pedestal, and it gives her WAY TOO MUCH VALUE.
An example would be to tease her about what she says or does.
GET TO THE POINT.
You got her number to meet up with her, not to become her texting buddy.
Alright, so there it is. I hope that you found this information useful. Be sure to stay tuned for my next blog on what not to text a girl after you’ve met her.